No one would have paid me to work as a topless waiter/waitress. I don’t have what it takes. But if I had used some such legal job that does no harm to anyone to earn some money, so what.
It’s very different if you are a woman. Here is the story of one lady who was shamed, ridiculed and “outed,” and for years has been too afraid to enter her chosen profession.
I was cheering as I read. You will too.